In this episode of The Gospel Coalition Africa Podcast Blaque Nubon is joined by his wife Lilly Million. They share their views on how to navigate the normal, sex related, challenges that married couples experience, and give practical suggestions for how to handle them.

Christians know that God designed sex, and he designed it to work best in marriage. But that doesn’t mean married sex will always be easy. Marriage takes work – even in the sex department.

Married Sex Podcast – Timestamps:

02:30 – Sex in Marriage: Why This Topic?
04:50 – God’s Design & Purposes for Sex and Marriage
10:05 – Married Sex: The Normal Challenges
10:47 – Past Sexual Experiences & Perversions
15:30 – Figuring Our Your Expectations Of Sex
19:30 – Practical Tips: Talk About Sex To Your Spouse
22:57 – The Winning Recipe for Marriage and Sex
24:10 – How To Pray About Sex
25:00 – Beware of Overshare & Unhelpful Comparisons
26:35 – Where & When to Get Help
30:54 – Don’t Use Sex as a Weapon
31:34 – Good Married Sex is Part of God’s Plan

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What Key Questions Does This Podcast Address?

1. What is a Biblical View of Sex and Marriage?

2. Why Is My Married Sex Life Difficult?

3. How To Have a Great Married Sex Life

Top Quotes…

“Intimacy isn’t just the physical acts. Intimacy is your heart. And for me, I think if there’s a disconnect on a physical level there must be a disconnect on a heart-mind level.”

“But if you’ve got two people in a marriage, and you want it to work, then you’ve already got a winning recipe.

“As you become intimate with your spouse, it is ultimately for God’s glory. And it’s building you guys together. To build your family stronger so that we can build a society that will glorify God. So it’s bigger than just the two of us. I think it connects to the mission of God and what God is doing in this world.”